Healthy Living, Life, Parenting

Have a Family Night In This Season – Tips from DIY Network Host

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Have a Family Night In This Season - Tips from DIY Network Host

It gets so busy over the holidays. We are in all directions and the kids are out of school for a few weeks so we may have to adjust our schedule or find nannies and daycares so they can be watched during the day. It is just as hectic for the kids as it us. It is important to find a few nights over the Holidays to keep yours and the kids schedule empty. Have a night in as a family.

Jason Cameron

DIY Network host and Pine Mountain spokesperson Jason Cameron, has put together a go-to checklist for all of us!

  • Make a festive snack – Everyone loves making sugar cookies and gingerbread, but the best part is eating your creations! While snacking on cookies, wash it down with some hot chocolate or warm apple cider.



  • Watch a holiday movie – From Frosty the Snowman to Elf, we all have a favorite holiday movie. These movies provide a sense of nostalgia for adults, and offer hours of entertainment for kids.


  • Decorate your home – Setting up holiday decorations in your home is a tradition that many families across the country have. Play some light music in the background and chat about your favorite holiday memories to make the activity more festive.

As mentioned above, there is a seasonal scented Balsam Fir Firelog by Yankee Candle from American home that leaves a pleasant scent that is easy to light and burns clean. Pick one up for your night in this season.

Healthy Living, Life, Parenting, Tips and Tricks

New Years Goals: 6 Ways to Get Mentally Fit

Getting fit isn’t always physical. Sometimes the hardest change we can make is the mental aspect of healthy living. I was sent this article to share and wanted to offer you these tips on getting mentally fit for your New Years goals of 2017.

Get mentally fit-New Years Goals

Dr. Sanam Hafeez PsyD, a NYC based licensed clinical psychologist, teaching faculty member at the prestigious Columbia University Teacher’s College and the founder and Clinical Director of Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services shares some key ways to get mentally fit for the new year so you can move forward successfully.

  1. Clear clutter. Look at your surroundings. If you have junk drawers galore, a messy car, countertops and cabinets that are full of stuff you don’t even use, it is time to clear the clutter. According to Dr. Hafeez, “cluttered spaces reflect a cluttered mind. If you want to wipe the slate clean to allow room for new people and circumstances that serve you, you must get your mind clear. Many of my patients who describe themselves as anxious, stressed or even depressed say they feel better when they start clearing up their physical space.”
  2. Exercise a little bit. Dr. Hafeez who also helps people overcome body image issues encourages aiming for smaller attainable wins. “People set high fitness goals for the new year and then fall off after a month or less. This leaves their self esteem shot which is when self loathing and depression can sneak in.” She advises setting a reachable daily goal of perhaps walking 10,000 steps per day. There are step-counting apps available to measure how much you walk and they add up quickly. “When you see accomplishment on a daily basis you stick with it, this sets your mind in a positive direction,” says Dr. Hafeez.
  3. Eat mind-boosting foods. Mental fitness also has to do with how well our minds work. A loss of memory or the ability to concentrate or focus can easily shift with an improved diet. “Research finds that along with other benefits, foods rich in Omega-3, such as some fish and nuts, as well as those full of antioxidants can help protect the brain from memory decline.” So eating more fish such as salmon and add fruits such as blackberries and blueberries to your diet can help. The good news is that brain boosting foods include delicious options such as chocolate, guacamole (avacados) and sunflower seeds.
  4. Color! The adult coloring book bandwagon is a good one to jump on. According to Dr. Hafeez coloring requires total focus on the present. The repetitive motion of coloring provides relief from stress and anxiety by entering a meditative state. “Not everyone can sit still and breathe for 15 minutes per day, but they certainly can color. It’s absolutely a fun way to achieve mindfulness and shake off the day,” explains Dr. Hafeez.
  5. Apologize and forgive. A fast way to mental fitness is forgiveness! “Carrying around resentments and guilt wears us down and can lead to serious illness such as cancer or stroke. If you experienced a tough break up, divorce or perhaps the 2016 political climate led to arguments and lost friends, reach out apologize and seek forgiveness and move on. Remember, forgiveness doesn’t mean you condone a hurtful behavior. Forgiveness frees you and the other person making it easier to move forward.
  6. Learn something new. Challenge your brain by learning a new language, how to cook, paint, do Tai Chi. Pick something you think would be interesting or useful to learn and learn it. If you avoided cooking your whole life, learning the basics will serve your brain very well. According to Dr. Hafeez, “the more we can activate the cognitive functions of our brains the better our short and long-term memory and hand eye coordination will be.”

Dr. Sanam Hafeez PsyD is a NYC based licensed clinical psychologist, teaching faculty member at the prestigious Columbia University Teacher’s College and the founder and Clinical Director of Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services, P.C. a neuropsychological, developmental and educational center in Manhattan and Queens. 

Dr. Hafeez masterfully applies her years of experience connecting psychological implications to address some of today’s common issues such as body image, social media addiction, relationships, workplace stress, parenting and psychopathology (bipolar, schizophrenia, depression, anxiety, etc…). In addition, Dr. Hafeez works with individuals who suffer from post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), learning disabilities, attention and memory problems, and abuse. Dr. Hafeez often shares her credible expertise to various news outlets in New York City and frequently appears on CNN and Dr.Oz.

Connect with her via twitter @comprehendMind

*This is not a sponsored post. I was not compensated.

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4 Ways to be Pet-Prepared in an Emergency

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In the event of an emergency are you pet-prepared? If suddenly tonight a natural disaster hit that had you finding shelter for your family, would you know what to do with your pets? In a recent survey of over 5,000 pet owners, 46% are not prepared. I was given some data from Pet360, Inc that I felt was important to share with my readers. I spent several years as a Veterinary Assistant and in one vet clinic I worked at in Oregon, we had bad forest fire nearby and at one point our clinic was at capacity sheltering animals. There were so many families running to local vets confused and panicked on what the plan was for pets. We could only hold so many. The plan is the owners responsibility especially if that disaster were to happen after hours of a clinic. 
What does being pet-prepared for an emergency mean?

Essentially, being pet-prepared in an emergency means having a plan. That plan should consist of access to crates, list of family/friends who approved helping out who live nearby, easy access and always enough pet medications on hand. Having plenty of food and portable water on hand. Vaccine/ownership records on hand. Leashes/harnesses to keep them confined as well as waste bags. Just as they teach for family safety, you should have enough supplies, food and liquid accessible to last a minimum of 3 days if stranded. 
Is your pet ID’d. A microchip is the best investment you can make for your pet. If you have no family or friends that can help you, do you know what hotels in your area are pet-friendly? Having a list you keep with emergency supplies can save you that headache in the middle of an evacuation.
The 4 P’s of Pet Preparedness 
Brought to you by Pet360 and Red Paw Emergency Relief Team
  1. Plan Ahead: There are many shelters that do not accept pets. Asking family and friends ahead of time to be accessible or to have a list of pet-friendly hotels will save you stress
  2. Practice with your pets: Pets and stress bring out odd behaviors. Like children, if you practice at quiet moments, it will be more familiar to them if a disaster struck. Make sure your dog is practiced entering and exiting a vehicle and has a ‘come; command. Make sure you put your cat in and out of a carrier and know their ‘come’ calls (opening canned food, calling their name, etc..)
  3. Pack and Emergency Kit: For a great checklist, I recommend Pet360’s top 10 pet emergency kit items
  4. Protect your Pets when they are home alone: Display a pet alert sticker near an open front area of your home showing types and number of pets, note if they are indoor only animals or both and list your Veterinarians number on that sticker.
Having a plan and doing some research now will allow you to get the pets taken care of so you can focus on larger issues when a disaster strikes.
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Staying Organized with the Mom Planner from Tools4Wisdom #Review

Disclosure: I got this product as part of an advertorial.

You are welcome! I am able to bring you to a planner I was sent from Tools4Wisdom that has everything you want in a Mom Planner. I have tried a few planners in my lifetime and also since becoming a Mom and some are way too complicated and others are too simple. This one is perfect. I love the top plastic shield page as mine get torn and bent and this planner stays stiff and protected so I look organized. Hard to appear organized as you walk around with a beat up looking folder. 
The first part of the planner are some goal-setting pages. Then you head into a weekly planner. The start of each month has a clean month-style layout and then you open up to larger grid week by week like in the picture above. I have a spot to jot down personal and family goals in the side. I have the daily grid with hourly times listed as well as a section to label notes for individual family members-Dad, Mom & Kids. There is even a menu planner at the very bottom. From breakfast to 5pm swim lessons you have your entire day in front of you. The end has a journal section so you can take your thoughts or parent meeting notes with you. You can even preview a digital view of the entire planner in this preview link.

The Mommy Planner & other Tools4Wisdom Planners are available at Amazon
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Car Talk, Healthy Living, Kids, Life, Trending Tuesday

Trending Tuesdays: Talk to Your Teens About Texting & Driving. Popular & Clever Ads

The message these days is all about the dangers of driving while distracted/ texting and driving. I have a 15 year old who starts Driver’s Ed soon and in his class he will be watching a AAA  video made for these classes where he will ear real stories from real teens who have lost loved ones due to texting & driving! As the school season starts and the kids hit the roads at the same time to and from school, I wanted to just use this Trending Tuesday post to simply bring you clever and heartfelt ads about the topic! Share them, read them and discuss them with your teens or to those you know!

  • 5 seconds is the average time you are taking your eyes off the road to text!
  • Odds raise to 23% more likely to wreck while texting & driving
  • Under 20 is the age group most responsible for distracted driving
  • 60% of Drivers admit to using cells while driving

“You either see the Letter …or the Girl”
“I’ll be there in a w(hile/wheelchair)” Texting & Driving

…and possibly the most startling video from Brian Williams

The message…if your child survives their Texting & Driving Accident, they may not survive the system! So let them know that Texting or Driving can only lead to 2 things when they wreck: 
Death or Jail! 
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About Me, Life

About Me…5 Question Friday! #linky

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    1. Who drives when your family is together, you or your spouse?
    Mainly my husband, but I also do often enough

    2. Are you an introvert or extrovert?
    Introvert by far!! Just ask my husband-it drives him nuts!

    3. Are you married to an introvert or extrovert?
    Hmmm…he is slightly both. He becomes an extrovert to open me up, 
    but can still keeps things in till he is really bothered at times!

    4. What’s your favorite type of social media?
    I like Facebook for keeping in touch with friends,
    but Pinterest is more my style.

    5. What’s your favorite way to “recharge”?
    All boys in bed..a little drink and veg to HGTV!