Kids, Parenting

July 4th Tips for Sensory Issues

The Early Learning Center at Meeting Street in Providence is prepared for the 4th of July with these tips for sensory issues from Emily Lennon, Registered Occupational Therapist.

If your child is sensitive to noise:
Stay further away from the fireworks display so that you can see them with less noise from the booms and the crowd. Wear noise-cancelling headphones or ear plugs, if your child tolerates them.Let them listen to their own music with earbuds while watching the fireworks.
If your child is sensitive to visual input:
Wear sunglasses to watch the fireworks.Stay further away from the crowd so there is less visual stimulation.
If your child is sensitive to touch:
Bring a chair or blanket (such as a weighted blanket) to sit on so they are not touching the sand or grass.Sit away from the crowd so they are not bumped unexpectedly by people in the crowd.
To calm your child:
Engage another sense
Your goal may be for the child to attend and tolerate the event rather than pay attention to the ceremony and use of a fidget spinner, stress ball, or clay/playdough during the firework display will provide a distraction.
Give deep pressure
Before the fireworks begin, do wheelbarrow walking, tug of war, wear a weighted backpack or another activity that is resistive to calm and organize.  Following these types of tasks, the child is more likely to handle stress/excitement.Have the child sit between 2 people to “squish” themWrap a blanket tightly around the child
Prepare your child:
Have the child watch a video about fireworks ahead of time so they know there is loud noise and sudden flashing lights.Write a social story about the sequence of the day and what happens during a firework display.
Give them some control:
Have them watch for a particular color and count how many there are during the displayHave them say what color they see i.e. red is for firetruck.  With the delay of sound from the flash of color to the boom, they might be talking and not hear the sound as much.
Be prepared:
Have some calm/relaxing time prior to firework display.  If the day was busy and chaotic, the child will be less able to handle the noise, late bedtime, etc.Have snacks, drinks, jackets, etc.  If your child is comfortable, they will be able to handle the stress better.Have an escape plan.  Be at the edge of the crowd for an easier get away.  Know the signs of overstimulation and meltdown and interfere/leave before it happens.  If possible, have enough adults so that one can go to the car with the distressed child and distract/play music until the event is complete.

These tips offered by Emily Lennon, Registered Occupational Therapist, who has 30 years of experience working within the pediatrics field, specializing in early intervention, outpatient, and school based settings. In addition, she is certified in Sensory Integration and Praxis Tests.

Food/Beverage, Recipes

Simple Tequila Cocktail: 4 Ingredients – Parenting Healthy

Let me start by saying that I am not a tequila fan. It is bitter and in order to drink it it needs to be heavily disguised with other flavors. I am the same way with gin also.

Buying mixers is an easy way to add flavor to your liquor, but just adding a margarita mixer still didn’t cut that taste for me. Then one day I remember seeing a recipe a while back and although I didn’t like the heat element of this cocktail recipe I remember that it gave instructions to make a honey syrup.

I knew that my tequila and margarita mixture was missing something sweet so I whipped up some honey syrup to add and it made a world of difference. Not only that, I use the Grapefruit Margarita Cocktail Mix from Collins. I suppose you can just call it a Paloma, but I don’t ever salt my glass when I have this drink because that salt just cut the sweetness I needed too much.

You can get fancy and add fruit slices too (lime is good), but I like to whip up a quick nightcap and since I am not juicing my rim I don’t slice fruit on an average night.

Erin Sluka

Simple Sweet Grapefruit Margarita

5 from 1 vote
This is an easy recipe especially for those who may not appreciate the taste of tequila. Just the right amount of added sweetness and so easy to make. This recipe also tastes great with Strawberry Collins Mix.
Prep Time 5 minutes
Servings: 1 drink
Course: Drinks

Ingredients
  

  • 1/4 Cup Honey
  • 1/4 Cup Water
  • 3 OZ Collins Grapefruit Margarita Mix
  • 1.5 OZ Tequila

Method
 

  1. Mix Honey and Water in a small saucepan over low heat and stir until mixed well and smooth. Set aside to cool
  2. In a shaker (or stir cup) add 2 TSP of the cooled honey mixture, tequila, mixer and more than half way with ice and shake/stir.
  3. Pour into a glass filled halfway with ice and enjoy!

Collins Cocktail Mixers are a great way to whip up a quick cocktail for any occasion. Since 1934 they have been bringing us great flavors for cocktails and every bottle offers a written recipe.

The syrups are made with real sugar, contains juice and does not contain high fructose corn syrup. Just add your liquor and serve.

Healthy Living

6 Checkpoints On The Road To Addiction Recovery

The road to addiction recovery is not an easy one to travel. Addiction as a disease can have a lasting grip that is the main catalyst for the inability to identify the need for recovery, as well as action.

6 Checkpoints On The Road To Addiction Recovery
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Each person has his or her own unique addiction, and there is certainly not one uniform road toward addiction treatment. A drug or alcohol addict can be propelled into addiction by social, psychological, and biological issues, as well as family history.

This is why no one’s path to sobriety can be used in practice for successful recovery. After all, an addict is always an addict, it simply depends on if they are practicing or not. There are a few common checkpoints on the road to addiction recovery. Let’s take an in-depth view of them.

1. The Awareness Moment Of Addiction

Many people stumble upon their addiction via some sort of awareness moment. This moment happens in many ways, from family discussions to friends beginning to point out addictive behavior. An addict may also find the awareness moment to be a bit more blunt, as in the case of legal issues that result due to addiction.

The addict is still a practicing addict at this point. They have yet to make a decision about their recovery or treatment, still using, but they are now aware. This is often a pivotal stage that the road to addiction recovery begins.

“Addiction and recovery can look differently from individual to individual. As surely as we can be addicted to alcohol, substances, or medications, we can just as easily be addicted to love, work, sex, dieting, exercise, skin picking, and food,” Dr. Julie K. Jones explained in PsychCentral.

Within this awareness moment actual acknowledgement of addiction arises, and the addict may begin to see the importance of intervention and action to overcome their disease. This is that moment when denial begins to slip away, but action still has not become a priority.

2. Taking The First Action Step Toward Recovery

The next checkpoint on the road to addiction recovery is action. This is of course easier said than actually done. The second checkpoint toward recovery and treatment can take weeks, months, and in some cases years. However, when the addict begins to take action, they have hit the second checkpoint.

How does this happen? Most of the time an addict will decide to take action after learning more about their disease and how it impacts their life, and the lives of those around them that care. This is vital, since it is the first moment in which he or she will see things beyond themselves.

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3. Recovery And Treatment Begins Here

The third checkpoint on the road to recovery and treatment is the actual beginning of actual recovery. In this stage, the addict begins to seek out information, insight, and advice about recovery and what it means to live as a non-practicing addict.

He or she may begin reading about recovery programs, treatment facilities, and asking those they know who are clean and sober. During this checkpoint, many addicts will start attending meetings like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and/or Narcotics Anonymous (NA) depending on their drug or drugs of choice.

He or she may also feel the need to go to a recovery program or facility to get another level of support to help them fight their disease. More often than not an intervention by friends and family, or the legal system, urges this on.

4. Letting Go of Triggers

Unfortunately, one of the biggest battles for addicts is difficulty eliminating triggers. For example, they may be in a relationship with someone who was also abusing a substance alongside them. If your partner isn’t willing to change, or could influence your path back into addiction, it’s time to let go. 

Furthermore, research has shown that there is a strong link between substance abuse and abusive behavior. Alcohol in particular has a high relationship with domestic crime. With this in mind, addicts may find themselves returning to abusive households—whether through emotional abuse or physical abuse. 

“Substance abuse contributes to domestic violence is a highly complex way,” says the Law Office of Matthew Hand, domestic violence lawyers in Denver CO. “If ties with an abusive person cannot be broken amicably, recovering addicts should seek legal help to eliminate instances of abuse that hinder their road to recovery.” 

5. The Addiction Recovery Honeymoon Stage

The honeymoon stage of addiction, often referred to as the “pink cloud,” a very important time period that holds powerful achievement, yet also presents a very serious risk.

During the fourth checkpoint of addiction recovery, the addict has stopped using his or her drug or drink of choice and is in actively battling their disease. This is great, but dangerous. Early recovery causes vulnerability in addicts, since they are forging a new way of life without the people and places that represented or facilitated their addiction.

The fourth checkpoint is when relapse is at its greatest potential. It is essential for addicts to continue their routines of sobriety and stay humble, not thinking they are cured, because there is sadly no cure for addiction.

6. A Foundation For Long-Term Recovery Is Solidified

Like all new things built, it is important to have a strong and sturdy foundation to continue the build upon. The last checkpoint of addiction recovery is the time when this foundation is solidified.

Here addicts have put in the work, are sober for a substantial amount of time, have a sponsor, have completed rehab (if that was the case), and are actively working their addiction recovery program of choice.

In Conclusion . . .

Addicts are always going to be addicts. Like any disease, it sticks around for a lifetime. The addiction recovery process is certainly not a one-size-fits-all thing, since everyone and every addiction issue is unique. The most important part of recovery in many ways is support. 

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Better than Laser Tag. It’s an ArmoGear Laser Battle!

With summer coming, we need engaging toys and games to get the kids unplugged and outdoors to play. My son has outdoor or friend time built into his daily schedule for summer so he gets his screen-free break each day and they could not wait to break into the summer toys!

This is Laser Battle by ArmoGear. It is almost giving it no justice calling this set a ‘toy’. It is excellent quality and these vests and laser guns have a very long range. There are so many features!

  • Wireless target vests
  • 15-second invisibility mode
  • Built-in night vision flashlight
  • Voice guided gameplay and instructions
  • 150-200 ft shooting range
  • Multi-player capability
  • Four different weapon modes with sound effects
  • more….

When it comes to playing outdoor games, there is no better way to see the game in action than with a video! Below find the brand video of the set and all of the features.

Next, see the video of Anthony (my son) and some neighbor boys trying it out for the very first time!

Anthony’s video….

Set up requires 2 AAA batteries per vest and gun (not included). Make sure you are prepared with plenty of batteries. Every gun and vest has an on/off switch so they are not sitting and draining unnecessary battery when not in use.

Perhaps kids don’t need an instruction booklet for toys, but I highly recommend reading the short list of game play instructions because we did and easily learned how to find and use all features and we would have missed some of these tips had we not taken that time to read them.

You can save with my promo code! Just visit this link to ArmoGear and use the code: PARENTINGHEALTHY for $8 off your set!

You can also find ArmoGear products from Ness Toys on Amazon HERE!